Tomorrow one of my best friends leaves Bali.
He is pure, good hearted and understands me. accepts me, loves me and so do I very very much. he will be here with me again in few weeks. Yesterday a friend of mine left Bali. we collaborated, laughed, went through challenges and cried together. the tears I held back on her good bye eve liquidised today when I realised that she really left. Nobody knows, I might or might not see her again. Today a friend bid farewell to a young woman who tragically left our world. She will never hug her, hold back tears on her farewell, even argue again. She might have a farewell. She will certainly cry. She will never see her again.
The past days when I felt the great need for connection, being held and supported, I went deep into the mysterious connection ‘friendship’, felt, studied more and understood these powerful soul-sister- and brotherhoods… I understood that every moment with them should be cherished, celebrated. say what you always wanted to say, hug them on good bye, put work aside when they need you, understand that it is a bond you have chosen. and love them. love them every day.
They are your shining stars.
And if you happen to live far away… decide on a star you can look at together, so that even when they leave this world, they’ll shine for you. forever.
Have you ever said it? How did it feel to you to say goodbye my friend?